When Queen Victoria married Prince Albert on the 10th of February 1840, she was delighted to have her new husband beside her. However, their early married life was not quite as straightforward as either might have expected. Albert had married the Queen of Great Britain, but that did not mean he had any authority of his own in the country.
One of his first difficulties concerned their household. Albert wanted to choose his own staff, but Victoria had already made arrangements and insisted that he accept her choices. He was accustomed to a society in which husbands were generally expected to take charge of their households, and suddenly found himself in a rather different position.
There was also the question of Baroness Louise Lehzen, Victoria's former governess. Lehzen had been with Victoria since childhood and remained one of her most trusted companions. Albert disliked her influence over his wife, and their disagreements over her position would eventually become a serious problem within the royal household.
Albert was also interested in politics and government, but Victoria already had a trusted adviser in her Prime Minister, Lord Melbourne. She had relied heavily upon Melbourne since becoming queen in 1837, and Albert initially had little involvement in her official duties. Although he was intelligent and well educated, finding something useful to do was proving difficult.
In May 1840, Albert wrote to his friend Prince William of Löwenstein about his situation. He explained that he was happy in his marriage, but admitted that he was only the husband, not the master of the house. It was a rather revealing admission from a young prince who had expected marriage to bring him greater responsibilities.
However, things gradually began to change. Victoria was expecting their first child and sometimes felt too unwell to manage her usual workload. Albert began reading government despatches to her, and the couple eventually placed their desks beside one another at Buckingham Palace so they could work together.
By the end of 1840, Albert was effectively acting as Victoria's unofficial private secretary, with access to important government papers. He had begun to establish a role for himself, although his influence would continue to grow over the following years.
Victoria and Albert certainly loved one another, but their marriage was not without its difficulties. Victoria had been queen for nearly three years before they married, and she was accustomed to making her own decisions. Albert had to learn how to be the husband of a reigning monarch, while Victoria had to become accustomed to sharing parts of her life and work with him.
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John Partridge, Prince Albert (1840). Royal Collection, RCIN 404543. Public domain, via Wikimedia Commons.